Just thinking about my "child of many Rosaries", my Mary Theresa(I often call her Tee.) I was on bedrest for about 1/3 of my pregnancy with her. I almost miscarried her so many times!
She doesn't sleep well, has never slept well, and has at times been a trial. However, she is also a very loving child, and has her own distinctive (and oft stubborn) style. She is very precious to me, and interestingly enough, I see so much of myself reflected back at me from her. I'm told that she is a lot like me when I was young. Like me, *but different*, because obviously, she's not me. <---How's that for profundity? Ha! She is very original. I don't see in her that tendency to try to copy others' behavior or styles...she just had the hair stylist chop off most of her long hair, at a time when most adolescents her age are growing it long, no bangs. Then we went to Uptown Cheapskate and she picked out a leather jacket and sleek black shades. Very cool she was. I have to be the voice of reason and remind her that she is extremely farsighted, and she'd better wear her REAL glasses, most of the time. Because I'm the Mommy, that's why.
She is an artist, that I can see from the time and effort that she spends on her drawings. She has a tender heart, I can see that from the tender ministrations that she gives to Miss Whitney, our cat.
To be continued...
Life in the Slow Lane
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Wednesday, July 9, 2014
Musings 7/9/14 by Carol
Monday, September 24, 2012
seventh step reflection
I'm in Al-Anon. A family group for those who either live with an alcoholic or grew up with alcoholics. I'm in the latter group. I think that if I drank(and I don't), I'd be a double winner, that is to say that I'd be in Alcoholics Anonymous as well. I am saving myself some time and agony, and just staying the hell away from alcohol. So much of what I hear in the rooms and in the Al-Anon literature (and what I have seen in my own life) keeps me away as well...the stories of children being raped by relatives, (and not realizing that all they had to do was to *say* something to break the vicious cycle of abuse), parents abusing each other, taking all the cash to buy booze, fighting, suicide attempts. So we, the children, learn to *try* to control something, because our lives are so out of control. We end up manipulating, mothering, controlling, and friendless, or close to it. What have I learned, in one sweeping nugget of wisdom, from Al-Anon? That God alone is in control. Do I have control over other members of my family? No. Who can I help the most? Me.
I have reached the seventh step of twelve. That doesn't mean that I am DONE. Oh, noooooooo. For I am human, imperfect. So, it follows that God is not going to remove all my imperfections in a blinding flash. Instead, he is already working on removing defects in a symphony, a rhythm known only to Him, perfected just for me, so that I may learn life lessons from what is to follow, and from the brief glances in the rearview mirror of my life. I can savor the improvements that I see *with His inspiration*. I have "seen" this symphony, played out in a brief flash, during meditation one day while working on step 6.
I will be working these steps for.the.rest.of.my.life. And not just because a priest said that I needed to do it, although I thank that priest wholeheartedly for my introduction to this spiritual path. Also, it is not because the program says that I need to work them. It is because I have seen what they are doing for me. The beautiful thing, the most beautiful thing of all, is that it doesn't interfere with my Faith, not one iota, instead, it strengthens it, and completes it. I am learning to love without fear, and to love those who don't think the same as I do, and indeed way differently than I do. I hope to see that I am leaving being judgmental behind for love and acceptance. This person is in this "place" for a reason, and I don't know everything, and ***I should ALWAYS assume the best of intentions, any time.*** (and what place am I in? Hmmmm?)
When ready, we say something like this: "My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad. I pray that you now remove from me every single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness to you and my fellows. Grant me strength, as I go out from here, to do your bidding. Amen."
I have reached the seventh step of twelve. That doesn't mean that I am DONE. Oh, noooooooo. For I am human, imperfect. So, it follows that God is not going to remove all my imperfections in a blinding flash. Instead, he is already working on removing defects in a symphony, a rhythm known only to Him, perfected just for me, so that I may learn life lessons from what is to follow, and from the brief glances in the rearview mirror of my life. I can savor the improvements that I see *with His inspiration*. I have "seen" this symphony, played out in a brief flash, during meditation one day while working on step 6.
I will be working these steps for.the.rest.of.my.life. And not just because a priest said that I needed to do it, although I thank that priest wholeheartedly for my introduction to this spiritual path. Also, it is not because the program says that I need to work them. It is because I have seen what they are doing for me. The beautiful thing, the most beautiful thing of all, is that it doesn't interfere with my Faith, not one iota, instead, it strengthens it, and completes it. I am learning to love without fear, and to love those who don't think the same as I do, and indeed way differently than I do. I hope to see that I am leaving being judgmental behind for love and acceptance. This person is in this "place" for a reason, and I don't know everything, and ***I should ALWAYS assume the best of intentions, any time.*** (and what place am I in? Hmmmm?)
When ready, we say something like this: "My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad. I pray that you now remove from me every single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness to you and my fellows. Grant me strength, as I go out from here, to do your bidding. Amen."
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Arggggghhhhh!
Non Catholics: why is it that when you first meet me and find out that I am Catholic, you take it upon yourself to educate me on Sacred Scripture?
One of these days I'm going to just start giving people a discourse on the 6th chapter of the Gospel of St John!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Don is SO much better at this than I am)
"Ignorance of Scripture is ignorance of Christ."
~St Jerome
One of these days I'm going to just start giving people a discourse on the 6th chapter of the Gospel of St John!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Don is SO much better at this than I am)
"Ignorance of Scripture is ignorance of Christ."
~St Jerome
Friday, June 10, 2011
All the things you need to know about using a ruffler foot but were afraid to ask :)
https://www.youcanmakethis.com/info/featured-products/free-the-ruffler-unruffled.htm
I am going to go over this soon, as I have just gotten a ruffler foot. Not much else to say right now....cleaning up my formal LR and turning it into a sewing room.
I am going to go over this soon, as I have just gotten a ruffler foot. Not much else to say right now....cleaning up my formal LR and turning it into a sewing room.
Monday, May 30, 2011
the prayer I'm working on now...
I realize that the people who wronged me were spiritually sick. Though I did not like their symptoms and the way these disturbed me, they, like myself, were sick, too. I ask God to help me show them the same tolerance, pity, and patience that I would cheerfully grant a sick friend, When a person offended I said to myself, "This is a sick man. How can I be helpful to him? God save me from being angry. Thy Will be done."
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
more sewing projects....and my sewing corner :-)))))
My sewing corner
pink bermuda shorts(4T)
skort rear view(4T)...same pattern as above, modified
I have been having sew(lol) much fun with sewing lately, and rediscovering some creativity.
I have realized that when I have a better spiritual life, the creative juices flow. I make a point to wake up early and pray, and then I go back to sleep until Lil Bit(AM) wakes me up.
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